Maybe it comes from having grown up with martial arts in my life. Maybe its the Asian/Chinese genes.
In this respect S-girl was drastically different from me. She wasn't completely comfortable in her own body, I guess would be how I'd describe it. Me, I like to go around my house shirtless. And yet I like being warm. But I prefer freezing cold weather to humid hot weather. Strange.
Anyway, this is one of those things that didn't bother me at first but really started to become conspicuous later on in our relationship.
There were a lot of negatives that really started to show as things progressed. I'm sure S-girl found minus points in me, too, but she was more forgiving, I guess you could say. You could say. I'm more of the mind that the good feeling of being in a relationship with me outweighed the negatives. It became apparent, really obviously apparent, that she wanted it more than I did near the end of things. I won't deny that it is a flattering feeling, having someone like you. This feeling abounds during the 'honeymoon phase' of most burgeoning relationships. It usually fades and you get into the 'real' part of a partnership where you either truly like each other's company, as individuals not just 'a cute girl/guy', or you realize that you made a mistake.
Not that I'm saying I wish S-girl was more violent, heh. I don't care for the tsundere type. And definitely not the yandere...
And she wasn't uncomfortable with touching. Well, not with me anyway. And a bit more creativity would have been nice, too. Haha, interpret that last part however you like.
Man something about Tsunderes ! <3
ReplyDeleteAs for affection, its depends on the person. With relatives, we engage in little playful fights and with my significant other, I can be very mischievous. Sometimes, I find myself purposely annoying him for attention. *Bad* ._.
Well, I won't judge you for that. I've already said I loved annoying S-girl.
DeleteKicks and punches. That sounds.. feisty. I can't do it. Other ways sure, but I feel bad with even the lightest acts that would normally do harm.
ReplyDeleteI can respect that.
DeleteThat picture is almost too dawwwwwww. As for affection, I'm not sure if I could, even playfully, hit someone. Maybe a light tap. I am known to poke people but I think that's more to do with enjoying annoying them a little like you. I think I can possibly get a bit too affectionate though.
ReplyDeleteHaha too affectionate. Then its just awkward. Unless you don't care about that anyway!
DeleteI'd say I'm more into pinches nose or cheeks and sometimes punches! haha..guys hates me for that :( I even bite their shoulders sometimes esp. if I feel a little bit shy or something. haha
ReplyDeletewonder what will be your topic tom, it's really getting more interested ever day :D
Ohohoho, biting the shoulder... that's something different altogether. Guess I'll talk about that next.
Delete*interesting rather :D
DeleteShe wanted it more then you? Did you break up with her or her you?
ReplyDeleteMe with her.
DeleteSounds like an interesting dynamic...but it's always odd when one side wants things more than the other
ReplyDeleteIt is odd. And, as it proved, it really isn't a solid foundation for a relationship.
DeleteIf I had a chance I would!
ReplyDeleteStrike first, run later!
DeleteHow long did you guys date for?
ReplyDeleteA year solid, another year on and off.
Deletewhat a cute comic!
ReplyDeleteI know right! I just labeled it Romantic for my images folder though. Close enough.
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